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Estate Planning Mistakes of the Rich and Famous (cheatsheet.com)

7 Tips On Planning Your Estate, From The Mistakes of Celebrities

Cheat Sheet article by Megan Elliott
estateplanningDrafting a will might seem like an activity for a wizened billionaire, but putting together an estate plan is actually a critical part of almost everyone’s financial plan, even those who aren’t super-rich. Yet estate planning is also a task that many people, especially young people, ignore, since death or incapacity seems like such a distant possibility. That’s a mistake, say experts.
“No one is invincible, and accidents can happen. It’s important to prepare for these situations, no matter how remote the possibility may be,” Kirsten Waldrop, associate professor of estate planning and taxation at the College for Financial Planning told Financial Planning. “Many people believe that, if they’re young and do not have a lot of money, they don’t need an estate plan. That is simply not true.” 
Perhaps there’s no better way to get an idea of the importance of having a will and other estate planning documents in place than looking at what happens after celebrities pass away. All too often, the news of a famous person’s death is quickly followed by reports of squabbling among family members, money lost to taxes, and worse.
The rich and famous usually have more complicated financial situations than the average person. Most of us aren’t going to have to worry about who inherits our personality rights after we’re gone (an issue the family of Jimi Hendrix has argued about) or who should receive our residuals. But we can still learn lessons from how deceased celebs handled their estates. Here are seven of the most important.

1. Heath Ledger

Heath Ledger had a will when he died in 2008, which left everything to his parents and sisters. Ledger also had a young daughter, but he had not updated his will to include her. His family ultimately decided that she would receive the entire inheritance, but if they had not, she may have been left with nothing from her father’s estate.
Lesson: Updating your estate plan after major life events like the birth of a child is essential.

2. Paul Walker

Paul Walker died far too soon, leaving behind a teenage daughter, his parents, and many stunned fans. But the 40-year-old actor had taken steps to prepare for the worst. He had a will and had set up a trust for his child, who inherited all of his $25 million in assets. Though Walker was relatively young, he had smartly taken steps to protect those closest to him.
Lesson: “[L]ife does not always work out the way we expect,” wrote Stephen C. Hartnett, the associate director of education for the American Academy of Estate Planning Attorneys. “Walker was wise in that he had thought ahead and had done an estate plan.”

3. Warren Burger

You’d think a Supreme Court Justice would know better than to take a do-it-yourself approach to estate planning, but apparently not. Chief Justice Warren Burger wrote his own will, but the brief document contained misspellings and oversights that may have cost his heirs hundreds of thousands of dollars.
Lesson: Do-it-yourself estate planning can backfire. Burger’s self-written will was valid, but other people may not be so lucky. Handwritten or videotaped wills or those that aren’t properly witnessed may not be recognized, and if you make a mistake, the entire will may be useless.
“Many people think an invalid will still influence(s) where your assets go, but it doesn’t,” estate planning attorney Kristi Mathisen told Bankrate. “If you have an invalid will because of a failure in the execution of the document, your state’s law of intestate succession steps in.” Protect your heirs and hire a lawyer.

4. Lou Reed

Former Velvet Underground frontman Lou Reed died in 2013, leaving his $30 million fortune to his wife and his sister. He had no children and a small family, which meant that he was able to keep his estate plan simple and straightforward. But because he had a will and not a trust, the details of estate became public, including how much money he had and who received it, when the will was filed in probate court.
Lesson: If you want to keep family business and finances private, don’t rely on a will alone.

5. Philip Seymour Hoffman

Oscar-winner Philip Seymour Hoffman didn’t want his three children to be “trust-fund kids.” To avoid that possibility – and against the advice of his lawyers — he left his entire estate to his long-time girlfriend Mimi O’Donnell, with the idea that she would provide financially for their kids. But because O’Donnell and Hoffman weren’t married, she was hit with an estate tax on the inheritance. And while Hoffman obviously trusted his partner to do right by their children, there’s no guarantee that she’ll make the same decisions he would have, as estate planning attorney Melissa Montgomery-Fitzsimmons explained in an article for MarketWatch.
Lesson: Estate tax is only an issue for people with more than $5.43 million in assets, but anyone with kids should think about how they would want them provided for. Setting up trusts with restrictions (such as that the funds be used only for education) can be a way to provide for kids without spoiling them.

6. Tom Clancy

Best-selling author Tom Clancy left behind $86 million when he died in 2013 at age 66, as well as a complex family situation. Some of his wealth went to his current wife and their minor daughter, while the rest went to four adult kids from a previous marriage. But unclear planning documents lead to a dispute over who should have to pay taxes on the estate.
Lesson: Clancy’s estate was uncommonly large, but his family situation wasn’t unusual. When relationships between heirs are complicated, crystal-clear instructions can help avoid conflict. “It’s critically important … that planning documents, regardless of if the family is blended, be drafted with as much clarity and attention to detail as possible in anticipation of such squabbling,” says WealthManagement.com.

7. James Gandolfini

After he died in 2013, some who saw James Gandolfini’s will wondered whether the Sopranos star had ignored estate taxes and disinherited his eldest son. Neither was true, his lawyer told the New York Times. Yet other experts pointed out that sloppy and incomplete planning might lead to confusion or problems for his heirs, especially when it came to his home in Italy, which he left to his children, but without any specific provisions for its upkeep.
Lesson: A half-finished approach to estate planning could cause problems for your heirs and may mean that your wishes aren’t carried out exactly as you intend. Also, if you have property you want to keep in the family (like a beloved cabin), making provisions for maintenance can reduce conflict and make life easier for your survivors

70 million dollar James Gandolfini Estate Taxes (Investment News)

Gandolfini heirs giant tax bill

Staring at potential $30M payout to IRS and state authorities; 'will not be pleased with their tax advisers'

By Liz Skinner   |  July 12, 2013 - 1:57 pm EST
The enormous estate tax bill that heirs of the late actor James Gandolfini may be facing could trigger legal action, says one attorney.Provisions in Mr. Gandolfini's last will and testament suggest that the actor's estate -- valued at some $70 million -- may have to fork over $30 million in federal and New York taxes, according to William Zabel, founding partner of Schulte Roth & Zabel LLP.Mr. Gandolfini, best known for his role as mobster Tony Soprano, signed his will in December, six months before he died of a heart attack while vacationing in Italy. He was 51. The actor's will left 30% to each of two sisters and 20% to his daughter Liliana, who was born in October. His wife, Deborah Lin, is to receive the other 20% of his estate, as well as all his personal property other than his clothing and jewelry, which Mr. Gandolfini left to his 13-year-old son.As his spouse, Ms. Lin's 20% wouldn't immediately create an estate tax liability because federal rules usually allow such inheritances without spurring a tax until her death. But the sisters and daughter who will inherit 80% of Mr. Gandolfini's estate will have to pay 40% to Uncle Sam beyond the first $5.25 million federal exemption. “His heirs will not be pleased with their tax advisers,” said estate attorney Gary Wolfe, who expects that the case will end up in litigation. “You can't stick a client with a $30 million tax problem and ride off into the sunset.”If the estate has to liquidate assets in order to pay the taxes, those assets will have to be sold at whatever the market bears, “so then they get killed twice,” Mr. Wolfe said. At a minimum, an irrevocable trust should have been set up for Mr. Gandolfini to use to pay insurance premiums toward a life insurance policy that would have covered expected estate taxes, Mr. Wolfe said. “Nobody likes losing money, especially when you don't have to,” Mr. Wolfe said. Mr. Wolfe, who doesn't have knowledge of Mr. Gandolfini's affairs, said that the actor may have been advised to do further estate planning, but he refused. Mr. Gandolfini also may not have been able to get insurance, Mr. Wolfe said. The actor had admitted to having cocaine and alcohol issues in the past, and he was overweight. It is possible that Mr. Gandolfini was told about the tax bill but was willing to pay the tax as long as his goals were met in the will, according to Frank Fantozzi, chief executive of Planned Financial Services. The will mentions that Mr. Gandolfini has a separate trust set up for his son. Or, given that Mr. Gandolfini died younger than he likely expected, he may not have completed estate-planning techniques that would have removed some of these assets from his estate and supported his heirs in other ways, Mr. Fantozzi said. Such plans may have included setting up family limited partnerships on properties that Mr. Gandolfini owned or creating a credit shelter trust to make sure that the actor and his wife made full use of their estate tax exemptions, Mr. Fantozzi said. The eye-popping tax liabilities likely in this high-profile case serve as a reminder that putting off estate planning can hurt those left behind. “Whether you have $70 million or a more modest estate, good planning is important,” said Danielle Mayoras, principal partner at Barron Rosenberg Mayoras & Mayoras PC. “When you have minor children, it's even more important.”Mr. Gandolfini's will calls for his daughter to receive her wealth at 21, an age that many think is too young to handle such a large fortune. It could have been spread out so that it became hers over time, said Ms. Mayoras, who co-wrote “Trial & Heirs: Famous Fortune Fights” (Wise Circle Books, 2009). “When you have an estate that size, most people don't want their children getting all the money when they are in their 20s,” Ms. Mayoras said. As to how anyone could have allowed so little planning to be done for such a large fortune, she said that clients don't always want to follow the advice their attorneys give them. “Sometimes clients are their own worst enemies,” Ms. Mayoras said.

How to Get Started with Estate Planning (from New York Life)

Introduction to Estate Planning

There is a widespread misconception that "estate planning" is of importance only to the wealthy. This is due, in part, to the emphasis of the financial service industry on planning for estate taxes, which only concern larger estate owners. This tutorial, above all, should help you recognize a number of other significant issues that deserve everyone's attention. Other tutorials explore the legal concepts and procedures, as well as the tools and methods of estate planning, probate, wills, and trusts.

What Is Estate Planning?
Although one's "estate" is adequately defined as his or her property, there is no precise definition of estate planning. Your estate plan can be viewed as a series of steps to be taken so that, after you die, your property will be handled in a way that recognizes your values and wishes regarding your survivors and any charitable interests you may have. When people start thinking about these things, some important lifetime concerns often come to mind, too, such as preparing for possible physical or mental disability. So, those issues are frequently addressed as well when one plans his or her estate.

Where to start? The prospect of estate planning can be intimidating because there is usually no single clear answer to that question-there can be so many interrelated human and financial factors to consider. Perhaps your thinking should focus on these two questions:

First, if you died tomorrow, what would you want to happen?
Second, what, most likely, actually would happen?

A good estate plan is designed to bring reality in line with your desires to the greatest extent possible, given the practical problems and limitations you face. The steps in the plan may include candid family discussions, drafting a will and trust, changing the beneficiary designations on some accounts, buying life insurance, etc. As for "problems," experience shows that the most common ones are insufficient money to fund all of one's goals, and survivors who do not act as hoped or expected.

The most important element of an estate plan is giving it the thought it deserves. Taken step by step, the process is not nearly as daunting as many people fear.


Assessing the Need for an Estate Plan: What Would Happen if You Died Tomorrow?

The answer to that big question is a composite of your responses to a range of smaller questions. Mull over the following questions, and if the answers or implications are not clear, or if they trouble you, make a note of them-a real note, not just a mental one. You will then have a list of issues on which to focus, and the simple act of writing things down will be invaluable in clarifying the thought process. Many people who have been uneasy for years thinking about this find it improves their peace of mind just to make themselves spell out exactly what bothers them.

Look over this list. Of course, not all questions will be pertinent to everyone.

Would there be mistrust, uncertainty, and bickering among your survivors in deciding how to handle your property and wrap up your affairs? Is there anybody who, if not prevented, might actually take your property or funds without authority?
Do you have a will that reflects your current wishes? If so, is all your property actually subject to probate court and the terms of the will-or is it instead set up to pass another way at death, e.g., through a beneficiary designation form, as with a 401(k) account, or to a co-owner, as with a joint savings or checking account?
If you do have property subject to probate (e.g., furniture, a house, or an account in your name alone), but do not have a will, what does your state's law of intestacy say about who takes property after a person's death?
What are the needs, abilities, and weaknesses of your survivors, especially your spouse and children, if any?
Are your survivors responsible individuals, capable of managing and using an inheritance wisely if they receive it outright? Or will they need protection from their own youth, financial inexperience, or bad habits? What about the influence of others? Would your bequest to a child need protection from his or her spouse or creditors?
If your current spouse is not the parent of your children, how—and when—will your estate be divided among them?
What kinds of property do you own, e.g., real estate, mutual funds, a family business, etc.? Can your property get along without your active management, at least for a while? How much of it could be converted to cash easily and quickly, if necessary, at reasonably good prices?
Is the net worth of all your property—or of the combined property of you and your spouse—more than the amount at which the federal estate tax begins to bite and tax planning is called for ?
What are your responsibilities to your survivors? Would you be leaving young children and the surviving parent, for example, with sufficient assets to maintain the family's standard of living? Or, in contrast, do you have grown children with good jobs, and a spouse with his or her own adequate retirement plan account?
If your children are under age eighteen, have you found a suitable guardian for them in case their other parent also dies?
Do you have a disabled child or family member who must be provided for separately, for life?
If you have an IRA or retirement plan account, have you selected the appropriate beneficiary and distribution options?


When people get around to reflecting upon these kinds of questions, problematic scenarios and "what if"s often come to mind. It is then that the need for an estate plan typically becomes apparent. Recognizing that need is the all-important first planning step. Unless your situation is very simple, the second step may be to consult with a qualified estate planning attorney.

Assessing the Need for an Estate Plan: What Would You Want to Happen if You Died Tomorrow?

What would you want to happen if you died tomorrow?

The more immediate issue may be what you do NOT want to happen.

If you have made a troubling realization or two after considering the above question, the more immediate issue may be what you do not want to happen. The top priorities are probably the potential situation you have identified and how to correct it. Frequently, an easy solution will suggest itself simply by you thinking through the problem. (If not, be smart and see an attorney experienced in estate planning. He or she has most likely dealt with many situations much like yours.)

Some peoples' values, wishes, and survivors' needs, however, really are very simple. So, too, should be their estate plans—perhaps just a two-page will saying, for example, "Everything to my three children, in equal shares." Other people have various contingencies for which to plan. Some form of charitable contribution—during life or at death—may be part of their plans. There may be a need for life insurance. Many want to keep one or more "strings attached" to payments made to their chosen beneficiaries. These strings come in infinite varieties, but almost always, keeping strings attached requires a trust.

A trust document can be drafted to set forth a personalized combination of specific instructions, with or without discretionary judgments allowed to your trustee, so that money is given to whom you want, when, and for the purposes you specify. This cannot be done with a will alone. A practical example of this point is the use of a trust by parents, in case they both die prematurely, to avoid the immediate distribution of assets to their children upon turning eighteen.

The first step in designing it properly is a realistic assessment of where you currently stand.


What Would You Want To Happen, If You Died Tomorrow?

If you have made a troubling realization or two after considering the above questions, the more immediate issue might be what you do not want to happen. The top priority is probably the potential situation you have identified, and how to correct it. Frequently, an easy solution will suggest itself, simply as a result of thinking through the problem. (If not, be smart and see an attorney experienced in estate planning. He or she has most likely dealt with many situations much like yours.)

Some peoples' values, wishes and survivors' needs, however, really are very simple. So, too, should be their estate plans - perhaps just a two page will saying, for example, "Everything to my three children, in equal shares." Other people have various contingencies to plan for. Some form of charitable contribution - during life or at death - might be part of their plans. There might be a need for life insurance. Many want to keep one or more "strings attached" to payments made to their chosen beneficiaries. These "strings" come in infinite varieties, but almost always, keeping strings attached requires a trust. (Trusts are examined in detail in other tutorials.)

A trust document can be drafted to set forth a personalized combination of specific instructions, with or without discretionary judgments allowed to your trustee, so that money is given to whom you want, when, and for the purposes you specify. This cannot be done with a will alone. A practical example of this point is the use of a trust by parents, in case they both die prematurely, to avoid the immediate distribution of assets to their kids, upon turning eighteen.


The Anatomy of a Simple Will, and Why You May Need One

Everyone should have a will. Even people of modest means should at least have a simple will, for two reasons:

To name an executor (sometimes also referred to as a "personal representative") to wrap up their affairs, and

To specify "who gets what" from their property, to avoid family squabbles.
In the absence of a will, the state law of intestacy determines how the decedent's (the deceased person's) property is to be distributed. In many situations, the law dictates exactly what the decedent would have wanted anyway if he or she had taken time to write a will. But many times the law does just the opposite.

Too often, one mistakenly thinks that one's heirs know what they are "supposed" to do, know what they're to get, or will act appropriately. Family squabbles regularly occur because siblings cannot agree on how to distribute mom's candlesticks, ashtrays, or microwave oven. When big-ticket items are involved, things can get bitter and ugly. A will, therefore, should be used to either name a particular person to receive each item of property or to set out a procedure for making the distribution, e.g., alternating selections by the two children, beginning with a coin flip.

Although some states include a form for a simple will in their statute books, there is no particular format required. The design of the document is usually straightforward, even if the language used by lawyers is a bit stilted. The text generally runs 2–5 pages. Keeping in mind that such a "simple" will may not be what you need at all, look over this description of a typical simple will structure just for reference purposes:

A paragraph stating that the will-maker is of sound mind and intends this document to be his or her "last will and testament."
A paragraph naming the executor—there should be an alternate, too.
Nomination of guardians for any minor children in the event both parents die prematurely. A guardian should be named for the person and for the property of each child. (These roles can be filled by the same person.) Note that whoever is nominated still must be approved and appointed by the court.
A provision that the executor first pay all the decedent's debts and taxes.
Specific bequests—if any—to named individuals, e.g., "Daughter Sally gets my wedding ring; daughter Jane gets my gold necklace."
Disposition of the remainder (residue) of property, which consists of everything that remains after taxes, bills, and bequests.
Married people with children often write wills that are "mirror images" of each other: "If I die first, everything goes to my spouse. If my spouse has already died, I give everything to my children, in equal shares, per stripes." Wills of this type are sometimes referred to as "I love you" wills.

The will can set out an alternating selection process, to be supervised by the executor. If no procedure is specified, it is the executor's job to conduct the property distribution as he or she sees fit—as long as it is completely fair to all beneficiaries. Too often, the executor is an adult child who is also a beneficiary and who abuses the position by giving himself or herself preference in some way. This is strictly prohibited by law, but it is the basis of many probate horror stories.

The "pay all my debts and taxes" clause seems straightforward, but it frequently leads to an unsuspected problem: since many transfers of property at death take place completely outside the probate system (e.g., joint property, retirement accounts, life insurance, etc.), this clause sometimes results in one beneficiary being singled out for these expenses. The decedent's "debts and taxes" all must come out of the "hide" of the beneficiary (e.g., a child) who inherits probate property, while other property, which may pass outside of probate to another child, is free and clear. This is one of many scenarios that make it wise at least to consult an attorney about your will.

People find that preparing a will provides great peace of mind, but they often fear that preparing one is complex. A simple will, however, is often merely a structured list of straightforward tasks designed to wrap up their affairs.


Choosing the Right Personal Representative (Executor and Trustee) for Your Estate

Choosing a personal representative may be the most important estate planning decision of all if you want to maximize the likelihood that your wishes get followed.

Personal representative is a generic term, referring to the executor named in a will or a trustee who is named in a trust to carry out its terms.

In most cases, your personal representative is going to have—by necessity—extensive or total access to your property.

An administrator is also a personal representative and is court-appointed to perform the executor's duties when a decedent has no will. Unfortunately, the person appointed may be a family member whom the decedent would not have wanted. Alternatively, the court may find it appropriate to choose a neutral third party—usually a lawyer—to serve as administrator. In the latter case, the estate is responsible for paying the administrator an hourly fee for all services performed.

Any of these personal representative roles can be filled by an institution, such as a bank, as well as by an individual. Obviously, however, whoever serves should be capable of doing the job, and this is a matter that often deserves much more thought than it is given. In many cases, relations among the surviving family are harmonious, there is little to be done, and everything works smoothly—no matter who is running the show.

When disputes arise or there is bickering, however, family diplomacy may be called for. Remember that some of us are better at this than others. Occasionally, on the other hand, someone must be ready, willing, and authorized to lay down the law and get things done. The selection of this person (or institution) should not be left to chance; he or she should be named by the decedent in a will or trust.

In most cases, your personal representative is going to have—by necessity—extensive or total access to your property. Very bluntly, a trustee, executor, or administrator is in a position to rob you (or your heirs) blind or to ruin your plan through inaction if somebody else acts improperly. Indeed, misconduct is probably the most common factor in estate and probate horror stories.

Of course, objections or complaints can be filed in court. But these can be difficult moves, and they are made after the damage is at least partially done. There is no close court supervision to prevent the misconduct. Therefore, you should not move forward with any plan unless you feel comfortable with the person or institution you have chosen.

The role of personal representative is crucial. Be sure to give ample thought to your choice of executor and/or trustee.

Do You Need an Attorney to Help You with Estate Planning?

Many people engage attorneys to help articulate and implement your plans, including the drafting of appropriate documents. In almost all cases, it is a good idea at least to consult with a lawyer at some point, even if only to review the plan and documents you might have prepared for yourself to be sure they comply with the laws of the state in which you live.

Most people do not know exactly how to put into legal effect the general desires that seem so very clear and uncomplicated in their own minds. Often, when laymen draft legal documents, they employ language that might, indeed, be clear to them, but ambiguous to others. Unfortunately, people tend to ignore (or be unaware of) limitations in their knowledge, and make financial and estate planning decisions in spite of it. Experience shows that many bitter moments occur in the probate courtroom, between members of the same family, engaged in a battle that could have been avoided with a little help.

This is not to say that all "do-it-yourselfers" are doomed to failure, especially if their situations are truly uncomplicated. Often, however, they fail to consider better options, tax pitfalls, related issues, etc. This, as opposed to total disaster, is the more likely danger to the "do-it-yourselfer," and the consequences vary from barely significant to very much so.

Will and trust preparation software can, in many but by no means all situations, produce quite adequate results. This type of software, however, often does not fully deal with particular details, contingencies, and very specific issues that may be important to a given family. If your circumstances have any kind of "twist" to them—and most people's do—there is no good substitute for individualized, professional guidance. Some people use will or trust software just to learn what these documents look like and to "get something on paper" before consulting a lawyer. This is an excellent idea, and these products offer quite a few educational tips and help screens.

The person who makes the estate plan is never there to see how well it works. Everything that can be done needs to be done—correctly—before death. While an attorney is not absolutely required for a good result in every case, using one is the best way to ensure that your plan is the very best possible for your circumstances.


Summary of Estate Planning

Keep in mind that estate planning should not occur in a vacuum. It should be seen as but one step in a process of comprehensive financial planning. This should include risk management and insurance of several types, as well as investment and retirement planning. As with any lifetime planning, merely having an estate plan is not enough to ensure it will work. Indeed, it is likely to fail if your financial and other personal affairs are not properly arranged at the time of your death.

Copyright (c) 2009, Precision Information, LLC. All Rights Reserved


This material is for informational purposes only. Neither New York Life Insurance Company nor its agents render tax, legal or accounting advice. Please consult your professional advisors regarding your particular situation before determining any appropriate course of action.

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Last updated date Mar. 25, 2010

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Estate Planning at Every Age (from Bankrate.com)

8 life stages for estate planning
By G.M. Filisko • Bankrate.com


When you're 40, chances are you're not the same person you were at 20, and your estate plan should reflect the changes you've experienced. Here's a rundown of the estate-planning tools you should have if you're just beginning your life's journey, midway through or approaching the final leg.

Ch. 1: Planning for life

"When you're a child, your parents can make financial and medical decisions for you," explains Gabriel Cheong, an estate planning attorney at Infinity Law Group LLC in Quincy, Mass. "But when you turn 18, they no longer have that legal right. If anything were to happen to you, you'd probably want your parents to control your health care and financial decisions. You'd also want them to be able to talk to your medical providers and have those providers respect your parents' right to make health care decisions, including discontinuing treatment if necessary."
So if you're over 18 and unmarried, execute four documents to make sure your loved ones can carry out your wishes:

1. A general durable power of attorney enables you to designate who will control your finances if you become incapacitated, whether it's your parents or another loved one.

2. A health care proxy allows you to designate who will make medical decisions on your behalf in the same situation.

3. A living will lets you lay out your wishes regarding life-sustaining medical treatment.


4. Finally, a Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act, or HIPPA, release allows your designated agent to discuss your medical condition without violating patient privacy laws. Without those documents, your loved ones may be forced to go to court to seek guardianship over you to assert those controls.

Single, but committed

"If you're in a long-term relationship but unmarried, create a will or trust if you want your life partner to inherit your possessions," recommends Mark Clair, an estate planning attorney at The Clair Estate Planning and Elder Care Law Firm in Maumee, Ohio. "Otherwise, they'll go to your closest relatives according to your state's law."

We're engaged!

"A prenuptial agreement isn't only for people who have a lot of money," says Cheong. "It's essential for everybody. A lot of people divorce because they've never had conversations about money. A prenuptial agreement forces people to engage in this financial conversation."

Just married

Revise your durable power of attorney, health care proxy and HIPPA release if you want there to be no question that your spouse should control your financial and medical decisions if you become incapacitated. "Think of Terri Schiavo," says Leanna Hamill, an estate planning and elder law attorney in Hingham, Mass., referring to the woman whose parents and husband battled publicly for seven years over the right to make health care decisions on her behalf after she became incapacitated. "She didn't have a health care proxy."
Without a revised durable power of attorney, says Hamill, your spouse also can't administer property solely in your name or property you hold jointly with your spouse. Also specify the person you'd like to make financial and medical decisions on your behalf if an accident incapacitates you and your spouse.

If you don't already have one, this is also the time for a will or trust. "In a lot of states, if you die without a will and have a spouse but no children," explains Hamill, "your spouse will inherit some of what you own, but your parents will also inherit." Rather than risk a fight between your spouse and parents over who should inherit, have a will or trust definitively state who should receive your assets. Also, if you own a home, purchase life insurance that will pay off your mortgage if one spouse dies.
Finally, change your beneficiary designations on such things as health insurance and investment plans so they pass to your spouse. "A lot of people think when they get married, those things change on their own, and they don't," explains Hamill. "Go to your human resources department and ask which documents include a beneficiary. Health savings accounts and flexible spending accounts sometimes have a beneficiary, as do bank accounts payable on death."

The joys of parenting

If you have children, update your will to nominate a guardian to step in if you and your spouse pass away. "Also include provisions in your will or a separate revocable trust so that your child doesn't inherit everything at the age of 18," recommends Hamill.
"A revocable trust allows you to appoint a trustee to handle any money your child inherits. The trustee can use it to support your child as the child grows up, and you can specify at what age your child can receive the money, along with any reasons your child should get it before that age, such as starting a business or buying a house. You can also specify that the trustee can withhold money if your child has a gambling problem, is in the midst of a divorce, or there's another situation that makes it inappropriate to inherit."

You'll also need a separate guardianship nomination -- sometimes called an emergency guardianship proxy -- that nominates a guardian to care for your child if both parents are incapacitated, says Hamill. That's helpful in simpler situations as well, such as when both parents take a vacation and a child needs emergency medical treatment.

Each time you have another child, be sure your estate planning documents address all of your children, and don't forget to increase your life insurance. "You need about $1 million to care for a child from birth to college," says Cheong. "Also, if you have a special-needs child, set up a special-needs trust, which allows you to provide for your child without disqualifying the child from government benefits."

Sing it, Tammy Wynette: D-I-V-O-R-C-E

"If you're separating or divorcing, you probably don't want your spouse to still have all the authority to make decisions on your behalf and access your medical and financial information," says Hamill. "Revoke those documents, including beneficiary designations, or sign new ones. A divorce decree doesn't magically change those things."
If you remarry, revise your will and trust documents to reflect the proper beneficiaries. "Most people want to share with their new spouse but also want to provide for their separate children at their death," says Hillary Gagnon, an estate planning attorney with Jennings, Haug and Cunningham in Phoenix. "Determine which assets you want to leave to your spouse and which to leave to your children."

The middle ages
As you reach your 40s and 50s, recommends Hamill, consider purchasing long-term care insurance, which covers the cost of long-term care or a nursing home.
The golden years
Review your life insurance to determine whether you can reduce it if your children are grown. Also review designations on your durable power of attorney, health care proxy, and HIPPA release to be sure the people you've named are still in your life and willing and able to serve in that role. "A lot of people at this stage," says Hamill, "also start planning their funeral to make sure that's in order."

8 ways to leave a mess for your heirs ( Estate Planning ) from bankrate.com

8 ways to leave a mess behind
By Sheyna Steiner • Bankrate.com

1. Stay ignorant about the process
2. Be clueless about the role of wills
3. Put your kid's name on the deed
4. Dawdle indefinitely
5. Don't trust trusts
6. Leave messy financial records
7. Give your ex-spouse a parting gift
8. Let others figure out what you want

From Financial Literacy,Chapter 11


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